An interview with guide Jai – insights into gay travel in India

Our long-time tour guide Jai has been leading our groups through the north and south of India for many years – with heart, humor, and deep knowledge. In this very personal interview, he shares why he loves his homeland, what touches our guests most, and why our gay groups are welcomed with open arms wherever they go.

About Jai and his deep connection to India

What does working as a tour guide mean to you? It makes me proud when guests fall in love with India and return. I love showing them my country the way it truly is – vibrant, contradictory, and beautiful.

What, to you, is the soul of India?

Without a doubt: the people. Their kindness, curiosity, and warmth shape the entire travel experience. Anyone who comes with an open heart will feel India’s soul right away.

Do you have a favorite place?

Udaipur. The city is beautifully nestled between lakes and mountains, rich in history, and has a special magic for me. I dream of having a home there one day.

"Jai is the face of his country – and our guests see India through his eyes."

North India – Colors, Chaos, and Cultural Treasures

Which place continues to amaze you?

Jaipur – the "Pink City" is full of life and history. The Palace of Winds, Amber Fort, the observatory – every corner holds something special.

How do our guests react to the big city life in Delhi?

Many are surprised by how friendly and warm the people are, despite the hustle and bustle. The “functional chaos” of the streets fascinates everyone. It’s easy to strike up conversations, people smile at you – it creates real connection.

Are there any hidden gems off the tourist trail?

Yes, many. I love surprising guests with small discoveries – a local market, a quiet alley, or a meal with farmers in the countryside. These spontaneous moments are often the most memorable.

  "India may seem chaotic, but it works – and that surprises many."  

South India – Spirituality, Nature & Serenity

What sets the South apart from the North?

The North is known for deserts, the Himalayas, and palaces. The South is famous for tea plantations, backwaters, and colorful temples. Both regions are completely different, and that contrast is what makes them so fascinating.

What fascinates you about Kerala?

The nature, the abundant water, Ayurveda, and the calmness of the people. An Ayurvedic massage with warm oil in Kerala is an unforgettable experience.

  "South India is green, gentle, and full of spirituality."   

India & the LGBTQ+ Community

How do you perceive the visibility of the LGBTQ+ community in India?

There has been progress. Large gay weddings in Udaipur, pride parades in Jaipur, and a lot of media attention. Two men holding hands is not shocking here. That makes many things easier.

Have there been special moments with our groups?

Every group is unique. I’m still in contact with many guests today. These are real friendships that last beyond the trip.

How do locals react to our groups?

Mostly with interest and respect. We stand out, and that often sparks nice conversations. Other tourist groups often seek interaction too. Openness connects.

  "Love is love - and our groups encounter warm curiosity and hospitality in India."   

Personal & full of inspiration

What was your most memorable moment with a Guys.travel group?

A surprise farewell dance with music and everything! I was completely overwhelmed. That kind of heartfelt warmth is something you never forget.

North or South – what would you choose for yourself?

Both. They’re so different, there’s no way to compare them. To truly experience India, you have to embrace both sides.

India in three words?

Love. Colorful. Friendly.

  "One time, a group prepared a farewell dance for me - it moved me to tears."   

👉 Your personal trip to India

Whether it’s majestic palaces in the North or tropical serenity in the South – with Jai as your guide, every one of our India journeys becomes a true adventure of the heart. And who knows: maybe you’ll fall in love – with the country, the people, or both.

🕌 North India Tour – a once-in-a-lifetime experience you’ll never forget!

🌴 South India Tour – hip, happy, holy: India’s tropical South

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